Letter for December 2018/January 2019

Like most children, my favourite time of year was Christmas. I had lots of favourite times, but Christmas was that bit extra special. It was because we had an open coal fire blazing in the hearth making the house toasty warm. We had extra special food like turkey and Christmas pudding, and if I was lucky, I got more than two toys.

As I grew up my expectations changed but the thrill of Christmas didn’t. Even as an adult I still find Christmas wonderful, not for me anymore but for my children and grandchildren. I can relive the thrill of my own Christmas experience through the faces of others.

For some, Christmas in a very difficult time. Personal circumstances, lack of money, bad relationships and a whole host of other things just can’t help but get in the way. Sadly, for some, Christmas is the worst time of the year. Christmas is meant to be a time of giving. Today, that seems to mean spending lots on as many presents as you can afford even when they already have so much. As a Christian, I believe in giving, and giving for giving’s sake, not because it is expected of me.

Jesus told us that we don’t need a lot of money to make a difference to others, in fact we don’t really need to spend a penny. All we need to do is give. We can give time, support, help and anything else that will, in the giving, help those who receive. It is amazing just how much a few words of comfort can affect the hearer; a simple gesture of helping someone in and out of the house with shopping bags.

Jesus gave the greatest gift of all, a chance to live with him in his Father’s house. To give us this, he gave his life.  This gift is worth more than anything money can buy.  I am not suggesting that you ignore friends and family at Christmas, in fact quite the opposite: be generous, but that doesn’t need to be in the price and number of gifts. Just remember to be even more generous to those who are in need.  We live in a society that is build on wealth, but it should be built on kindness and love, both of which we can give in abundance without cost. Have a wonderful and giving filled Christmas.

Rev David Teece, St Peter’s Church, Stanley

Letter for November 2018

It would be interesting to ask a group of people to say a word which they associate with each month of the year. I am sure that for the month of November the word “remember” or remembrance” would feature.

The month begins with the Christian festival of All Saints or All     Hallows on 1st November (hence Halloween on 31st October is really ‘All Hallows Eve’). All Saints Day celebrates all Christian saints, particularly those who do not have their own special feast day of remembrance. Of the 16,500 churches in the Church of England, 1467 are dedicated to All Saints.

The 2nd November is All Souls day which is set aside to commemorate the souls of Christians who have died. Typically, we remember deceased relatives on that day. It is seen as an extension of All Saints Day and several Anglican churches are dedicated to All Souls.

“Remember, remember the 5th of November, gunpowder, treason and plot I see no reason why gunpowder treason should ever be forgot.”

This rhyme of course refers to Guy Fawkes and the plot to blow up the Houses of Parliament on 5th November 1605 in order to remove James 1st from the throne and return the country to Catholicism. Robert Catesby was the instigator but Guy Fawkes was put in charge of the explosives. The plot failed as an anonymous letter caused a search of the House of Lords and Guy Fawkes was found guarding 36 barrels of gunpowder.

Remembrance Day falls on 11th November and it is a day when we can remember those in the armed forces who have died in the line of duty. It is a time to give heartfelt thanks for those who willingly sacrificed their lives to give us the freedom to live out our own lives. At the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month in 1918, the armistice was signed between the allies of world war 1 and Germany. Since then many brave men and women have fought sacrificially, and lost their lives in conflict, so on Remembrance Day we remember them and their families for the sacrifice they made.

But of course we need to remember also the words Jesus spoke to his disciples at the last supper and which we hear during the communion service. As Jesus broke bread, he gave it to his disciples saying “This is my body which is given for you, do this in memory of me”. Offering them the cup of wine he said “This cup is God’s new covenant sealed with my blood which is poured out for you. Drink it in remembrance of me”.

We have much to remember and be grateful for. Let us this year, 100 years since the end of world war 1, pray for peace in our world .

Vicky Wilson, Reader, St Peter’s Church Stanley

 

Letter for October 2018

October sees us celebrating harvest (and everyone at St Peter’s is welcome to the St Anne’s harvest supper on Saturday 13th October at 6.30pm!), which is many people’s favourite festival of the church year.  It’s a relatively recent addition to the church calendar, being a Victorian invention.  The inventors of the harvest festival were drawing on the Old  Testament festival of ‘first fruits’, and perhaps also on the Mediaeval feast of ‘Lammas’ (a corruption of ‘Loaf-Mass’), which was celebrated near the first of August, at the wheat harvest, when the first grains of the year were milled into flour, baked into bread, and brought to church for a blessing.  But the Victorians decided to celebrate harvest in the autumn, as fruit and vegetables put forth a last abundance before everything slows down for winter.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve been almost overwhelmed by the productivity of the vicarage garden – especially by the wonderful and slightly terrifying bounty of plums.  Many jars of jam have been made, although I didn’t entirely manage to keep up with the tree’s production – it would have been nearly a full time job to do so!  But I felt a responsibility to make as much use as I could of the fruit which God’s had blessed me with. It’s a blessing, but there were moments when I wasn’t sure I wanted that blessing!

God gives us abundantly of his love, in our creation and in our redemption and in the presence of his Spirit among us.  I wonder, how often do we stop to dwell on this?  And how do we respond?  Of course, God’s grace is a free gift – but it demands a response from us too, not because we need to earn God’s love, but because we shouldn’t waste the grace and love poured out on us.  Sometimes, we might perhaps feel slightly overwhelmed by this.  But God does not over-burden us – he calls us to live lives of faithful love, sharing that love with others.  We’re called to bear the fruits of love and holiness – and it’s in doing that, that God’s gift to us come to its full harvest of joy.

This month will also see the launch of a six week study course that we’re inviting people from across the benefice to participate in, called “Lifting the Lid.” It aims to equip churches to support people affected by mental health issues.  It’s being held in Outwood church on Tuesday evenings.  (Tuesday evenings at St Mary Magdalene church, Outwood at 7.30pm) 

As many of us have become increasingly aware, there are lots of people known to us who are going through hard times mentally; it’s my prayer that this course will help us to offer a little bit of support. It’s not just an us and them thing – some of us have dealt with or are dealing with the issue for ourselves, and this course should give us all a bit more insight into positive ways the church can make a difference.  Blessings,

Rev Joanne Kershaw, Priest at St Anne’s, Wrenthorpe

 

Letter for September 2018

For those of you who haven’t met me, I’m Jonathan, the parish priest responsible for St Mary Magdalene’s Outwood, and an associate priest in the benefice of Outwood, Stanley and Wrenthorpe.  Over the next few months, the three churches in the team and St Paul’s Alverthorpe will be working more closely together as we look forward to appointing a new lead vicar in the future. Ministers across the team have begun meeting together, and over the next few months, you’ll see more of me, my wife Jo, and the readers from St Anne’s, while your ministers will be preaching in Outwood and Wrenthorpe on different Sundays running up to Christmas.

Change can be difficult. As we go through the next few months, work more closely and welcome a new lead vicar, there will be changes.  But we have confidence in the fact that the God we worship does not change. That might sound like a Sunday school saying that you’ve heard many times before.  But for the early Christians, it was a new idea: the Greek and Roman gods were worshipped because they corresponded to Greek ideas of perfection, which meant following the limits of nature   perfectly.  God in the Old Testament is the creator of all things, and guides the destinies of nations, but it also never actually says he doesn’t change.

But for Christians, especially as they reflected on what it meant to worship God “who is immortal and dwells in unapproachable light” (1 Tim 6.16), God was not just superior kind of being, which was perfect, unlike us.  He was different – a creator, rather than a creature, so not subject to the limits of time, or any other limit. This vision of God still inspires us today: a God who holds everything, even time and space in his hands, and who is himself unlimited, is a God who is above every situation we might face, and also a God we will always want to know more about. Gregory of Nyssa, one of the early Christian mystics, wrote that a god like this would always satisfy us:

This is truly the vision of God: never to be satisfied in our desire to see him. But by looking at what we do see, we must always rekindle our desire to see more. So there can be no limit interrupting our growth in  ascending to God, because there is no limit to the Good, and our desire  for the Good is not ended by being satisfied.

So as the changes ring around us, take confidence: God stays the same, and he always calls us towards him.  Every blessing,

Father Jonathan Bish, Priest at St Mary Magdalene, Outwood

Letter for July/August 2018

We hear a lot about “community”.  We talk a lot about “community”.  Family, church, village, school are all examples of community.  Apparently there are five different types of communities and every one can be classified by the purpose that brings them together, for example: interest, action, place, practice and circumstance.  So why is community important?  What does the Bible say about community?

Having a community around us means that we are not in the world alone.  We have people around us that we can turn to for help and support, for friendship and care.  In return, we have others we can share our lives with, to care for and help in their time of need.

There are many references to community in the Bible.  The general theme of most of these references is probably summed up in verses from 1 Peter.  Chapter 3 verse 8 says: “Finally, all of you have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart and a humble mind”.  Chapter 4 verse 10 says: “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace”.

We have many opportunities this summer to reach out as a Church community to the wider community.  We host the Community choir every Monday and look forward to their concerts.  We held our Summer Fair on 30th June and reached out to the community of Stanley and beyond.  We have the opportunity as a church to reach out to the young people in our community as we welcome all the year 6 pupils in two of our village schools to an end of year service on    Thursday 5th July.  For these children it is the end of the school community they have known since they were 5 years old, as they head towards a new school community in September at their new schools.  Scout Fest was another wonderful example of community.

We have another opportunity to show the strength of our Church community as we hold a “Peace and Hope picnic” on 14th July to celebrate the end of the first world war (click here for more details).  Come along and join us for a real community celebration of peace because as Psalm 133 says “Behold how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity”.

 Vicky Wilson,   Reader

Letter for June 2018

“Repay no one evil for evil…..live peaceably with all.  Never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”  If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.   Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”  Romans 12: 17—21

We don’t have to go too many days without coming across a    story of revenge – some variation on the spurned lover who cuts off the sleeves of their ex’s clothes and gives their silver car a coat of red gloss paint.  Many books and films are driven by a revenge-type plot, building up the tension until the bad guys gets their comeuppance, with the sense of relief that brings.  There seems to be endemic in humans a  desire for personal justice that is powerful and potentially deadly.

But God wants us to find different ways of dealing with vengeance; different ways of handling people who wrong us.

It feels like passive acquiescence, but it’s not.  The negative commands in the Bible: ‘do not repay anyone evil for evil’, ‘do not take revenge’, ‘do not be overcome by evil’ – are balanced with positive ones: ‘be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone, live at peace with everyone’, ‘leave room for God’s wrath… feed [your enemy]… give him something to drink’, ‘overcome evil with good’. These actions require us to be proactive; they place the initiative with us.

That makes sense. Most of us have to work hard at not coming back with the snide comment, not wanting to get ahead of that car that undercut us, not firing off that passive-aggressive email.  Revenge keeps evil in circulation, whether in a family or on a motorway or between nations.

Loving our enemies in tangible ways (‘feed him…give him something to drink’) seems so counter-intuitive.  And it is.  But no less counter-intuitive than what we see in the cross, the supreme demonstration of God’s love for us, even ‘while we were God’s enemies’ (Romans 5:10).  It’s there we see a different way of             responding to hostility.  In seeking to overcome evil, how could we not expect to be called to do the same?

Antony Billington writing in www.parishpump.co.uk

David’s Letter for April 2018

Here at St Peter’s, we have been very fortunate.  For the last 24 years we have had a dedicated and committed priest in Bill Henderson and in his wife Viv.  Together they have made a wonderful team dedicated to bringing the Gospels to life in the church and supporting the community here in Stanley.  Things haven’t always been easy or run smoothly but they have stayed committed to the idea of “love thy neighbour”, the challenge set by Jesus and brought to us through the Bible.

With much sadness, on March 4th, Bill   presided over his last service here at St Peter’s as he prepares for a well deserved retirement.  That day marked the end of one era and the beginning of another.  For Bill and Viv, a chance to explore new areas in life and an opportunity to spend more time with family.  For the church, we have entered into what is usually called an Interregnum, which means a time between priests, the period between one priest leaving and another being appointed.  This period often referred to as the vacancy, can be a challenge to the church and its congregation.  Continuing to meet the teaching of Jesus without the support of a priest can at first seem daunting.  The truth is that Interregnum often lead to a church discovering what is really is, and the challenge helps us grow.

The church congregation is much like a large family and like many families, we have our ups and downs.  The scriptures tell us that where two or more are gather in Christ’s name, then he is there also.  To us, this means that we are never alone in what we do as a congregation and as individuals. Jesus walks with us in our daily lives, not just on a Sunday when we meet together to give thanks and worship. Because of this we, as the family of Christ have an all knowing and all loving father, ready to guide us whenever we wonder from the right path.  The Interregnum, the vacancy, whatever you might want to call it, is a chance for all of us to become stronger together as a family and to explore together the next era, as we grow, to meet challenges with a new and strengthened vision for the future.

Rev David Teece

 

Bill’s Letter for March 2018

It is a very strange feeling beginning to write my last magazine   letter here in Stanley.  I am grateful for the many messages of encouragement about the opportunities in retirement.  Time to visit family and friends and do the things that full time work makes impossible.  Never the less there is also a real sense of loss too.  Being a vicar is an extraordinary privilege.  One has an opportunity to come alongside people and families at the most significant times in their lives.  It has been wonderful to see God at work as we have prayed and struggled together over the years.  I will miss the community that we have become so much part of.  Thank you to all those who been part of our journey together

One of the most disturbing aspects of the world around us is the prevalence of violence; whether it is the suicide bomber or a school massacre.  Even in many films and cartoons there is a theme of violence that in the end wins the day.  There are ’good’ guys that win and ’bad’ guys that need to be destroyed.  A Theologian called Walter Wink has written of the ‘myth of redemptive violence’, that is the idea that violence saves.  So for some people the answer to school massacres is more guns in school with teachers being armed.  There is the terrible image of gun fights in crowded class rooms.  Wink traces this idea back to the Babylonian creation story, that tells of a violent battle between gods, that leaves some victorious and dominant.  In contrast to this, Genesis tells of a     creation that is made out of love and made well.  In the beginning a place of Peace and beauty, though it is then messed up.

In the story of Jesus we have a stark contrast to the idea that victory comes from violence.  At Easter we remember that Jesus chose to use his power not to bring violent victory, but to choose powerlessness and allowed himself to be killed.  His saving act was then vindicated by his resurrection.  So when Jesus challenges us to take up our cross and follow him, he is calling us away from a reliance on violence to a radical response to conflict that is non violent and that seeks to build relationships with each other rather than fight.

This is difficult but has a deep logic.  Violence begets violence, and it is easy to see the danger of a never ending cycle of tit-for-tat that continues to escalate.  By contrast, a response that creates a relationship of trust and a growing understanding can result in genuine peace.  We can see that ’evil’ is just as much part of us as our enemy.  My prayer for our community and our world is that we can follow Jesus in this way of Peace.

Rev Bill Henderson

Bill’s Letter for February 2018

I began the February 2017 magazine wishing everyone a happy New Year and welcoming Jo and Jonathan to Outwood and Wrenthorpe.  I begin this one preparing to say goodbye.

We arrived as a young fresh faced family in 1993, little knowing that we would still be here 24 very special years later.  Seen here with Viv’s godmother at my induction.  In this time I have been involved in marrying 338 couples, baptising 677 children and adults and commending 1188 souls to God’s love at funerals.  It has been such a privilege to be involved with so many families at such significant times. I also have been doing school assemblies (or collective worship as it is now known) at St Peter’s school most weeks over this time. With many other contacts it is remarkable how many people I have got to know, though do excuse me if I forget a name.

Bill Family

One of the things I have enjoyed the most is our ‘Just Looking’ groups, when we have got together to discuss our faith and seen many people discover the reality of a living faith in Christ.

We have seen the life of the church grow from mainly Sunday worship, to a full programme throughout the week serving the community in all sorts of ways.  I am so grateful for the team that has made this possible.

One of the most difficult things was coming to the decision that the old church was no longer the place to worship, and I know this has been painful for many.  I do believe that we have been following God’s will in this and indeed the present building is what has made our full life possible.  The life of the church will go on in the benefice, so please look out for things to join in with.  We are planning to use the same material for our Lent groups in each parish, to encourage some mixing and enable people to get to know each other across the villages.

God Bless you all.

Rev Bill Henderson

Bill’s Letter for December 2017/January 2018

As we enter into the Christmas season we also move into a time of shorter days and longer dark nights. It is a time when the symbol of Jesus, the Light of the World is particularly powerful. We experience the darkness of the world in many different ways and the news highlights some for us especially in the darkness of the way we can behave to each other. We have seen the extreme example mass killings in Churches and Mosques. People are struggling with the financial situation as shown by the many people resorting to food banks as a source for food for their families. There are many more examples too numerous to mention. We need the light of Christ to help us transform this darkness to light.

As we reflect on the wonderful story of Jesus coming as a baby to be our Saviour we know we are not alone. There is an amazing truth in the fact that the creator of the universe chose to be born as a human being and identified completely with the human condition.

Emmanuel, God with us. He came with the vulnerability of a child who went on to allow himself to be cruelly killed, but also with the power to call things into being with a word, to bring healing and change our hearts from being selfish to being caring.

This makes the Way of Christ to be the hope for the world, and gives us his followers a real challenge. Many times in scripture we read God speaking to us, ”Do not be afraid, for I am with you.” As we are aware of the darkness around us, let us in Christ’s strength seek to transform it with his light.

Do come to one of the services or events we are putting on; you would be most welcome, the details can be found in the magazine. There are some for all different ages and at different times so that at least one should be convenient. Coming together at this time helps us think about not only receiving the gift of Christ’s light afresh for ourselves, but also being willing to share it with others.

Do come and join us.

Rev Bill Henderson